Once Upon a Time
This is a
pretty deep post, hugely personal but also something I think the world needs to
hear about more. In essence it speaks of abuse, and how that abuse does not
affect only the victim, but spreads like a ripple effect into the lives of all
those surrounding her. This is in tribute to my mum, a beautiful soul who was
abused in the most horrific way imaginable. Please read if you are able, and
please please, if you think for one second a child you know may be experiencing
abuse, speak up. You may be the voice they just don’t have.
Once Upon a Time
Once upon a
time there lived a beautiful Princess Child. She lived in the Land of Love; a place
full of springtime joy and colourful summer. Birds sang, their magical music
adding depth to the already saturated kingdom. Princess Childs’ hair shone like
the moonlit night, her eyes were small sparkling oceans and her face radiated warmth
and sunshine. Like all the other children, Princess Child was special and
unique; her golden heart made her precious like no other and she had big exciting
dreams of her future in Wide Wide World.
Family was her safe place; her home was her comforting castle and she
loved her brother and sisters with all her soul.
One day,
when Princess Child was still very small, a terrible storm hit. Brooding and
black, the storm whipped up fierce electricity- words sparked and anger flew,
plunging her safe sanctuary into dangerous darkness. Princess Child and her
brother and sisters felt scared as fearful fingers enveloped them. When the
storm finally lifted the castle stood in wreckaged ruins and their father was
gone. Princess Child’s world had been broken, and through her child’s eyes she
saw only a bleak grey landscape where there was once such vibrancy and life. Wide
Wide World looked so very different, but she still had her dreams, holding
tight to them like bright stars of hope in the dark night. Her mother struggled
to look after Princess Child and her siblings; her heart had been stolen by the
storm, taken with her father and replaced with stone. Harsh words rained down
alongside blows of frustration and even the umbrella of her dream-world
couldn’t stop some of those words sticking to Princess Child; ugly labels on
her soul. Worthless. Stupid. You-Should-Never-Have-Been-Born. A faded
reflection now stared back at her from the mirror, a whisper of the beautiful
joy that once was. In reality, Princess Child was as lovely as she had ever
been, but the mirror of self distorted her image through a cracked lens of
despair.
One day,
Princess Child escaped her ruined castle and met another little girl. Sparkle
Girl lived in a corner of the kingdom that had escaped the furious storm, and
her lighthouse glowed so brightly Princess Child almost forgot the darkness.
Sparkle Girl scattered goodness and warmth wherever she went, and soon the two
children were inseparable; their friendship a welcome anchor in Princess
Child’s turbulent life.
The infants
grew, their time together like pocketfuls of sunshine, until they found
themselves to be awkward In-Betweeners. Embracing the next step on their
journey in Wide Wide World they were no longer children, but not quite grown yet
either. This was the exciting time when dreams glimpsed reality, when Princess
Child could dare to imagine an adventure outside her dark tempestuous
childhood. But alas, this was never to be.
Monster Man
had watched Princess Child for some time now, his eyes hungry and his belly
craving fire. He was captivated by her innocent beauty, those sapphire blue
eyes and milky white skin drove him to the brink of desire like the animal he
was. He had to have her. She filled his thoughts, consuming his mind with
twisted longing, as he set about meticulously planning his attack with cat-like
precision. And then he waited. Waited for his moment to pounce.
Princess
Child was fourteen when Monster Man first broke her. Callous, cruel, depraved acts which robbed
her of the small amount of dignity and worth she had left. Cowering in fear she
summoned her dreams as he methodically shattered every last piece of her
spirit. But the things he did drained her vivid dreams to a drab faded grey.
Things too awful to speak of, Monster Man stole her heart and embedded himself
in its place. The shame was overwhelming, the suffocating weight all but
crushing Princess Child. Somewhere deep inside herself she found steely
determination; a strength she never knew she had. And she carried on, not
because she could, but because she had to. She needed to survive.
The
contentment lasted for a while but faded fast, leaving Monster Man more empty
and dangerous than before. Each encounter acted as a drug, fuelling his
addiction and leaving him desperately aching for more. Deeper and deeper into
the dark he fell, until nothing else mattered, nothing else but having Princess
Child. He didn’t care about the pain he caused; in fact the pain thrilled him.
His warped normality became her living hell right up until the day she
disappeared and slipped from his grasp forever.
Princess
Child saw Monster Man everywhere. Lurking in the shadows he waited to strike,
each time taking another piece of her, her heart slowly drowning in the dark.
Summoning every drop of strength left she tried to shout, but her muted screams
for help fell on deaf ears. Finally she ran, leaving her past and pressing
forward to her future.
With every
step she took Princess Child buried another memory in a frantic attempt to wipe
her childhood clean. It seemed to be working and in time she met the love of
her life, the man who brought the long forgotten sparkle back into her world.
Prince Charming was the most beautiful thing Princess Child had ever seen; with
shining eyes he wrapped his blanket of promises around her and she finally felt
safe. The whole town flocked to the fairytale wedding and celebrated the union
of the Prince and Princess.
A few years
passed and the couple welcomed two gorgeous baby girls into their lives. Red
was a cheeky, outspoken little thing, while her sister Goldilocks wooed even
strangers with her adoring smile. The Prince and Princess worked hard to build
a home for them. Not an expensive castle, but an asylum from the world- a place
they could call their own. Happiness reigned. Happiness reigned the same way
calm reigns before a storm.
At first
his visits were so fleeting and brief Princess Child wondered whether she’d imagined
them; fragmented remnants of yesterday that confused and muddled her. Monster
Man was back, fighting his way to the surface of her mind, and with each visit
the memories crystallised into painful shards, wounding her all over again. He
inhabited her dreams, bringing with him a blackness; a quicksand of despair
which sucked her deeper and deeper. The more she fought it, the more trapped
she became; reality slipped from her grasp as she scrabbled frantically against
Monster Man and his new reign of terror. She tried everything to remove him
from her head but his power held fast. Prince Charming tried his hardest to
help, but his weakness won, leaving Red and Goldilocks alone as they battled
their mother’s demons. They grew up fast, learning to look after Princess
Child, now a husk of her former self. Years passed and Princess Child still
could not escape the grip of her tormentor; there were times she hurt herself
and times she tried to leave this world altogether; the release of death
sweetly tempting in the chaos of her mind. Monster Man had branded his kiss of
doom onto her soul, and no matter how hard she fought, her strength still bowed
under the weight of his abuse. Despite this, she loved Red and Goldilocks with
all her heart. They were the candle in her gloom, the one ray of sunshine in
her weathered existence. The smiles she shared with them were precious gems and
Red and Goldilocks stored them up in their tiny treasure chests.
And then
one day, Princess Child earned her freedom. After fifty-four years of breath
she was granted her last, and the deicious release of death rendered Monster
Man powerless once and for all. Red and Goldilocks watched as their mother grew
her wings, finally free to dance. The tears they shed were only for themselves,
their sadness tinged with bright thoughts of hope for Princess Child. They
vowed to stand guard against Monster Man, knowing how easily he reared his ugly
head to cause heartache and grief. It would stop here. The shadows of yesterday
would not shape the landscape of today.
The cycle
will be broken.
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